RLST 4260 – Prof. Elias Sacks
In the last few centuries specifically, critics within and without Christianity have pointed at St. Augustine as a fierce critic of sexual intercourse. They say the words of the 4th century Bishop of Hippo cast a pall over the sexual act and can only be interpreted as harsh and negative, hardly in line with the increasingly progressive views taken up by Western society as a whole today. A closer reading of some of Augustine’s more famous texts, however, as well as some of those hardly known in non-Christian circles, reveals that his opinion might not be as simple as many have thought. In fact, when taking into account his personal and historical context, these texts show that the supposed harshness Augustine aimed at sexual activity was actually rather moderate, and that he preached one of the most progressive sexual ethics of his day.
St. Augustine offered no excuses for sexual intercourse (or sexual activity of any kind) outside of marriage. This point is irrefutable and I will not be engaging in arguing with it. My argument focuses on how Augustine viewed sexual intercourse within marriage, and for this it is important to look first at his personal life before he became a professed Catholic Christian. Augustine himself was never shy in speaking about this subject, in fact he wrote an entire mid-life memoir about his past indiscretions called The Confessions. Early on in The Confessions, Augustine wrote extensively about his inability to control his sexual appetites as a youth and a young man. However, throughout his sometimes explicit descriptions, he maintained that his primary problem at the time was his intentions. He had been seeking out sexual relations for the wrong reasons, that is, for lust rather than love and beauty. He explained that had his intentions been more just, “Then the stormy waves of my youth would have finally broken on the shore of marriage” (The Confessions, 2.2.3). In his mind, marriage would have provided discipline and direction for his sexual desires. Importantly, he did not say that celibacy was the only answer to his problems, as many assert, but that directing his desires toward marriage would have also been acceptable.
In book 8 of The Confessions, another nuance in Augustine’s argument came through. In this section of the story, Augustine dealt with the period of his life just before he made a total conversion to Catholicism. He wrote here that he had essentially made up his mind about the conversion, but his will would still not consent. He describes here how his past actions had created a sort of moral paralysis wherein he could not stop acting out borders on an account of sexual addiction:
[…] bound as I was, not with another’s irons, but by my own iron will. My will the enemy held, and thence had made a chain for me, and bound me. For of a forward will, was a lust made; and a lust served, became custom; and custom not resisted, became necessity. (The Confessions, 8.5.10)
This section and the parts that followed it are important because they show that in Augustine’s mind the main issue keeping him from total conversion was not sexual activity, but rather a weakness of his will and a lack of charity. The sexual sins were merely a product of a deeper problem, and not the root of the problem themselves.
Finally, in book 10 the now-converted Augustine underwent a hindsight examination of conscience wherein he looked at three sins from 1 John 2: 16, those being the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the ambition of the secular world. For the lust of the flesh, the one where his critics might expect Augustine to focus strictly on sexual temptations, he discussed a myriad of sensual passions and desires, including enjoying food too much and being distracted from prayer (The Confessions, 10). On top of that, he seemed much more concerned with the other two sins from 1 John and their results in the life of a Christian. He linked the lust of the eyes to idleness and the ambition of the secular world to the biggest catchword sin: pride (The Confessions, 10). In other words, throughout The Confessions Augustine certainly dealt with sexual passion, but only as one of many kinds of lusts, and all of these were merely symptoms of bigger spiritual problems.
This point seems to have also been made in our course material from Augustine’s other great work: City of God. Throughout book 14 Augustine developed the idea that sexual intercourse, whether within marriage or outside of it, inherently brings a sense of shame onto those who partake. He explained that through original sin, the sin of Adam and Eve, all humanity has fallen into shame to varying degrees in varying areas. The greatest area of shame is sexual intercourse because the sexual act is committed separate from our will, and often against it. He pointed to the anatomy of humans, and specifically how men cannot control the movements of their sexual organs by their will (City of God, 14.18). In our concupiscence, Augustine argued, we have tied up sex so tightly with lust that we have lost control of our will over our body and this is why we hide ourselves when we have sex. The point I want to make here, however, is that Augustine did not say that sex within marriage is a sin, or is wrong in any way. All he pointed out is an explanation for why humans tend to shield themselves when having sex. He goes so far the other way as to call sexual intercourse within marriage “lawful and honorable, indeed” (City of God, 14.18), hardly a fierce criticism of the act.
Next, I want to look at perhaps the most important argument against Augustine’s sexual critics. In his day, sexual ethics were a topic discussed by almost every Christian writer and priest. Interestingly, the general consensus between the majority of these writers, and the public at large, was that celibacy was not only the better path to follow (as St. Paul asserted occasionally throughout his epistles), but also that married couples were somehow made unclean by their sexual activity and might pay for that in the next life. In response, a priest name Jovinian argued that all baptized Christians share in the holiness of the church and that consecrated virgins and celibates are no better than married couples. This sparked outrage among many, not just within the hierarchy, but also within the lay population. Stepping into the fray, Augustine wrote a response to each assertion, one titled On Holy Virginity and the other called Of The Good of Marriage, in the hopes of finding a middle ground. In other words, he wanted to defend the slight superiority of a celibate state of life, while also maintaining the dignity and beauty of marriage.
In Of The Good of Marriage, Augustine presented three specific aspects of marriage that are inherently good: procreation, fidelity of the couple, and a sacramental bond. The first of these is probably not surprising to many of Augustine’s critics. He, like modern Catholics, believed procreation to be one of the essential (and necessary) aspects of sexual intercourse. Augustine did, however, make a radical claim for his time: he claimed that sex and procreation were part of God’s original plan for humans and not something that only came about after the fall (Of the Good of Marriage, §1 and also City of God 14. 23 and 24). Virtually every other Christian thinker of his day believed that sex as a means for procreation was only made necessary after Adam and Eve sinned, and in denying this Augustine brought a newfound dignity to the act itself. If sex was something preordained by God for the perfection of the Garden, then it can’t be looked at as something that might keep humans from heaven. He did caution, though, that sex and procreation are not ends in themselves, but rather good means toward an even better good end, that of human friendship.
“This is all fine and good,” an Augustine critic might say, “so you’ve shown that Augustine thought sex could be good within marriage and for procreation, but what about the pleasurable side of sex? He was definitely against that!” To which I would first make a concession. Without hesitation I will agree that Augustine’s view toward pleasure in sex (and pleasure in general) is definitely more conservative than that of the general public today. I will also point out, though, that he was certainly not Puritanical (despite that later sect of Christianity trying to use his words for their own theology) in his thought. In fact, I find Augustine’s words on pleasure during sex (always with the caveat ‘within marriage’) to be beautiful and instructive. He speaks harshly against lust, as always, but does not link that sin necessarily to pleasure.
First, in Of the Good of Marriage, he wrote, that when a husband and wife enjoy their love-making temperately, “there is interposed a certain gravity of glowing pleasure, when in that wherein husband and wife cleave to one another, they have in mind that they be father and mother” (Of the Good of Marriage, §3). In other words, when husband and wife have sex with the mindset of becoming father and mother (going back to procreation a bit), the pleasure of the sexual experience grows in an acceptable manner. Additionally, he says in another place of the pleasure accompanying sexual intercourse and eating, two natural acts: “both are not without carnal delight: which yet being modified, and by restraint of temperance reduced unto the use after nature, cannot be lust” (Of the Good of Marriage, §18). So, Augustine links pleasure in sex to pleasure in eating, both necessary actions for the “conservation of the race” (ibid.), and both to actually be enjoyed in temperance. In the modern health-conscious world I think we can understand this reasoning. I know many in Boulder who would encourage others to have as much sex as they like, while curbing and tempering their overeating. Augustine would say these Boulderites are on the right path, but just need to follow the philosophy through to other bodily appetites as well.
In the second of the three aspects of marriage that Augustine gave dignity to in Of the Good of Marriage, namely fidelity, one can find another defense of pleasure. For Augustine, fidelity meant not only avoiding sex outside of the marriage, but also something more than just that negative command. He wrote that fidelity included a positive obligation of married persons to engage in sex in hopes of helping each other avoid infidelity; that married persons owe one another sex as “a mutual service of sustaining one another’s weakness, in order to shun unlawful intercourse” (Of the Good of Marriage, §6). To this end, Augustine wrote, “Therefore the ornament of marriage is chastity of begetting (procreation), and faith of yielding the due of the flesh: this is the work of marriage, this the Apostle (Paul) defends from every charge” (Of the Good of Marriage, §12, emphasis and parentheses added). In another place Augustine even backed off of his typical vilification of lust. He said that if one spouse has sex with the other purely out of lust, that person has only committed a venialis culpa, a venial or forgivable sin (Of the Good of Marriage, §6.). In one of his later sermons, Augustine expanded on this thought. He said that if one spouse has sex with the other because the other could not contain his or her lust, the first spouse not only has not sinned, but has actually committed an act of charity and mercy for the other (Augustine, Sermon 354A.).
This final argument about how Augustine viewed pleasure within the marital act really sealed the deal for me. While it is abundantly clear that Augustine believed, like his predecessor Paul, that celibacy for the Kingdom of God was the most ideal life pattern for Christians to undertake, he by no means saw it as a singular vocation. The most natural vocation in the eyes of Augustine was marriage, and within marriage naturally followed sexual intercourse. Augustine argued with many of his more ascetic contemporaries on many points, but none more avidly than how sex is natural and ordained by God as a good within marriage. Certainly Augustine saw sex’s primary goal as procreation, but he did not deny the other positive aspects of the act. In the opinion of Augustine sex within marriage, even if done only for lustful means, could build holy unity between the spouses, drawing them nearer to God. Rather than declaring pleasure of this kind as gravely sinful, Augustine said it is entirely forgivable, even to the point that one should aid one’s spouse in satisfying the spouse’s lustful desires. These arguments may not persuade the staunchest of anti-Augustine critics, but they should at the very least serve to show that St. Augustine was not a vehement enemy of sexual intercourse within the context of marriage. I hope that those more stubborn critics might at least be swayed to take a further look at the entirety of Augustine’s prolific body of work rather than picking and choosing a few infamous phrases upon which to build their opinions of such a complex and rich historical character.
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